Ring Warming Ceremony: A Lovely Ritual that Every Couple Should Know

The Blessing of the Rings is another name for this lovely ritual. Your wedding rings are handed around and warmed by the love, blessings, and positive energy of your chosen guests. When the rings are delivered to the Best Man in time for the ring exchange, they hold something extremely powerful and valuable: the love and blessings of those you care about! Including a ring warming in your wedding ceremony is a unique approach to include all of your guests in the proceedings. This is also a great option for couples who wish to include their religious loved ones in a non-religious ceremony. Everyone will be welcome to spend a moment during the ring warming to bring their personal beliefs into the ceremony in a discreet but meaningful way.

How does a Ring Warming Ceremony work?

You might prefer to choose someone to be in charge of ring warming and explain the process to them. You should appoint someone to oversee your ring warming, explaining how it works and ensuring that everything goes smoothly. Depending on the type of ceremony you're holding, you have a few options. If all of this sounds like too much hassle but you still like the concept, you can always do it before the ceremony with your parents and wedding party.

  • If you've decided to invite a few special guests, you’ll encourage them to join in forming a circle in the ceremony area, where your wedding rings will be passed amongst them, receiving their love, prayers, and blessings along the way.

  • If you'd like to include all of your guests, set up a table near the entrance to the ceremony and invite your guests to warm the rings with their love and blessings as they enter. Someone should be in charge of keeping an eye on the table to make sure the rings are safe! This is particularly important for weddings with more than 100 attendees. It's usually a good idea to keep your guest book here!

Protecting your wedding rings!

It's also critical to keep the rings safe, which can be accomplished by placing them in a tightly wrapped customized ring warming bag, organza bag, or a tactile container, such as a shell. You can tie them with a ribbon, but a ribbon can come undone when passing through 100 people; we don't want them to be dropped and lost! It has been known to happen. You may ask your best man to keep an eye on the rings and put them back in his pocket before the ceremony begins!

Who takes part in the ring warming ceremony?

The couple chooses who will warm up their rings. They can either include all of their guests or only their family and wedding party. The ring warming ritual is usually led by the officiant. The officiant directs the ceremony and explains the significance of what is taking place, as well as how pleased the couple is to be receiving everyone's love in such a tangible way.  The rings can be given to a close family member who is unable to attend the wedding especially if they are ill to be warmed before the ceremony in some cases. This can be mentioned by the officiant so that everyone is aware of their participation in the wedding.

The person in charge of the ring warming ceremony is usually a wedding party member or the officiant. The following are some of this person's responsibilities - at all times, the rings must be kept safe and secure, passing the rings to each guest and returning them to the couple before they make their vows.

What is the timeframe of the ring warming ceremony?

It should only take a few minutes if the ring warming is part of the wedding ceremony. Before handing the ring to the person next to them, each participant should offer a wish or a prayer. The ceremony lasts as long as it takes for the guests to send their good wishes into the rings. If time is very important, having the rings "warmed" when guests arrive when everyone is seated but before the ceremony begins is an excellent idea. This gives everyone something to do while they wait.


Things to keep in mind!

This isn't only a chance for people to get a closer look at your wedding bands; it's also an occasion that should be respected. Remember that many of your guests will have no idea what a ring warming ritual is, so be sure to educate them! You might provide a slip of paper outlining the method in your wedding invitation, or have the MC say a few words about how it works. When it comes to a ring warming ceremony, timing is important. Passing your wedding rings around will take some time if you have a large wedding with more than 100 attendees. 

Make sure your ring warming is timed so that when it's time to exchange rings, the best man already has them in his hands and the couple doesn't have to wait. It also means that everyone will have enough time to fully shower their magnificent wedding rings with love and blessings!

What We Think

Readings, vows, and the songs you select to play at your wedding ceremony will make it extremely special,  but if you'd like to go all out, consider including a ring warming ceremony. It's a simple way to include all of your loved ones in your special day while also making your new bling sweeter and more meaningful. You won't have to break the bank to have a successful ring warming ceremony. All you'll need is, of course, your rings! and a strand of string, rope, or ribbon to thread between the rows of guests or if you want to set a little more budget you can place the ring in a creative box, or bag. 

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